Hey guys!!

I’ve been skeptical about publishing a new blog post because I feel some set of eyes boring into me. Since my result was released, in some quarters, almost everything I do has been analysed in terms of my result. I tweet a scripture passage and wham, someone thinks it has to do with my result somehow. Lol.

It doesn’t.

So if you’re reading my blog because you’re inquisitive about my life, relax please. Life is simple. My blog is part of my introvert expression not an extrovert expression, so I don’t necessarily write what you expect me to write, nor when you expect me to.

If we’re on the same page, we can progress. I’m happy to write to you for one reason:

Somebody special told me to.

Mister Lover

Here’s a snippet of some of the text messages we exchanged yesterday.

Mister: Hello fried fish, I hope you have a blog plan for tomorrow.

Debby: Haha. I don’t o. Someone is drowning. Help

Mister: Do life update. Write about you and your Mister. About what it feels like to have someone who cannot help himself but love you and express it. And about God’s love. Lol. Even me I know that is personal. Second idea is to share on a recent message that has gingered your heart. Maybe from the evangelism and mission secretaries meeting.

Idea 1: He said I should write about what it feels like to have someone who cannot help but love you and express it. I want to, but as the cliche goes, I don’t know where to start.

By the way, don’t be bothered about his calling me fried fish, or barbequed moimoi in some instances. We can’t have it all. ?

So Mister lover is my supporter. Complete supporter. While people congratulate me for my excellent result at the law school, mister was the one who fasted for me the entire week I wrote the Bar exams. I had to eat because I needed the glucose for the mental tasks in the exam hall. Mister was the one who chose to fast and continue praying for me.

One of the things I told him early on after I said Yes, was that he began to gain grounds in my heart when he began to come close to my dad on the subject of praying for me.

My parents pray for me selflessly. I think in particular, that my dad is my most fervent prayer warrior in the whole world. That gives me the spring in my steps.

Mister lover (amidst other things) covered considerable grounds in my heart by starting to pray for me. Deep, continuous and selfless prayers.

Test: When last did you pray for me?

Yep. I’ve come to understand that true, sacrificial love often reveals itself in prayers. There’s a passion in your spirit for that person which can only be channeled through prayer. It’s too deep to be completely uttered superficially. The welfare of that person consumes your mind.

I’m humbled by God to have that. To be a possessor of that kind of love.

Despite starting out by saying I don’t have what to where to start, I think I just told you one secret of my confidence. Selfless prayer warriors.

So if you’re yet to pick your special somebody, use the above checklist for them. Does his(her) love for you manifest in the things that count the most? And don’t listen to the people who tell you not everything is spiritual. They don’t understand. Lol. We’re not looking for a religious and pious cloak, but everything IS spiritual. There’s a kind of guy(lady) who can’t “break your heart” because of the Spirit controlling him. Get that guy/lady.

I love you mister. I always will.

http://www.tkpradio.org/I’ve been at a conference this weekend. It started on thursday evening. It’s been power-packed. I think a couple of people have their Christian diet very limited. There’s an all-round diet you should have from your local church. It should involve a regular dose of your biblical call to evangelize, sanctification and holiness, true faith etc. The work of missions has never been for “full-time” missionaries only. You don’t get to out-source the work. Jesus instructed YOU to make disciples of all nations. Based on Acts 1:8, you start at your Jerusalem (those around you), Judea, Samaria and the uttermost ends of the earth. You can connect with The Kingdom Projects, a missionary organization labouring to connect Christians with methods of carrying out the great commission through their secular jobs. The conference continues today and you can listen in through www.tkpradio.org or connect on YouTube or Facebook or Zoom.

Another tid-bit I’ll like to share with you is this –

God is more interested in who you’re becoming than in what (activity) you do. His expectation is that we conform to the image of his son whether things work out our way or not.

If your life isn’t moving at the pace you think it should, what are you learning in the midst of it? For me, Watchman Nee has been a good teacher this season. I just moved on to another book of his:

What are you reading? And what do you think about all the issues I raised above? Pray tell.


Babyyyyy my Sunshine. The way I was smiling as I read your blog, my cheeks would have reddened. Wow! I love you sweetheart! I woke up this morning with a freshness in my spirit and I prayed for you more than in the recent past. Then I saw your post. I will continue and increase in praying for you by God’s grace. You’re the best, Debby.

This morning’s text message. Haha

Love and light,



  1. Sophia Oluwatobi Oyedele July 18, 2020 at 11:08 AM

    How beautiful to be in love, moreso with someone who knows and loves God. May your union never be void of God’s love. Thank you, Debby, for yet another beautiful blogpost. We love you.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 18, 2020 at 11:20 AM

      Thank you and Amen, Sophia. This is a lovely comment.

  2. favourfasanya July 18, 2020 at 11:09 AM

    Too much good information to take in all at once.

    Keeping life simple is still the best way to live! Smiles.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 18, 2020 at 11:21 AM

      ??? Thank God. Thank you for reading.

  3. Grace July 18, 2020 at 11:10 AM


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  5. Zaram July 18, 2020 at 11:38 AM

    Thanks for sharing and writing Debby. A lover that expresses his love for you in action, words and prayers…what’s there not to love?

    Indeed Christ has called us all to evangelize…and we can’t outsource that task. Thanks for reminding me of this.

    I should read more Spiritual books this season.

    You and your lover want me to start screaming “God when” everywhere yeah? Haha. Well done!

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 19, 2020 at 9:14 AM

      What’s there not to love? ? Yep, to more reading and evangelizing ?.
      Thank you, dear.

  6. Gift Ogunfeitimi July 18, 2020 at 2:07 PM

    Love is beautiful when you’re with the right person. Hey Debby, I’m happy for you!
    Keep Inspiring, you never can tell how many lives are being changed by your blog post. This is me saying shun naysayers, you don’t have control over people’s opinions but you definitely have control over how your mind resonate. My sister, carry on. God, dey???

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 19, 2020 at 9:16 AM

      ?? Thank you, Gift. I appreciate the kind words.

  7. Omotoso Ogooluwa July 18, 2020 at 5:42 PM

    Debby Adebayo,one gifted lady whose simplicity in writing is admirable. I enjoyed your love account and that is just the true talk.,love expressed even in the closet.I am happy for the Mister(smiles) and happy for you too.Keep that simple heart dearie.It sure gonna take you far by His grace.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 19, 2020 at 9:17 AM

      Thank you so much, big sis. I’m grateful.

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  9. Gbemibori July 18, 2020 at 10:15 PM

    Ahh! Madam, you posted this beauty and didn’t notify me in person ?

    May I always pray for the ones I love.

    Thank you Sisi and Mister lover. We are grateful!?

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 19, 2020 at 9:18 AM

      Yes, to praying for our loved ones and I love you.
      Thanks for reading.

  10. Auntie Deola July 18, 2020 at 10:41 PM

    Sisi Debby! Thank you once again for making my Saturday amazing!

    Don’t Out Source Evangelism…okay!

    Mister Love, God bless you Sir.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 19, 2020 at 9:19 AM

      Amen, God bless Mister Lover. And I’m glad to have made your Saturday amazing. Glory to God.

  11. Omotunde Masha July 19, 2020 at 11:38 AM

    What better way to end a chore-filled Sunday morning?.. you are God’s own really! Grateful for you and Mister ?

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 21, 2020 at 8:01 AM

      Awesome. Thank you Omotunde.

  12. Goodness Ajinomoh July 19, 2020 at 2:26 PM

    Yes, sacrificial love surely does retain an impression of passion in your spirit that equally gains expression through prayers…
    Great Piece Debby.
    This is Awesome.
    Thank you

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 21, 2020 at 8:01 AM

      Thank you very much. I’m grateful. ✨

  13. kehindeadeyemi July 19, 2020 at 9:19 PM

    This is beautiful. I love the simplicity. The lesson is powerful. I pray for such experience with Miss Lover.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author July 21, 2020 at 8:04 AM

      Amen to you having such experience. Thank you for the compliment.

  14. Dor? July 21, 2020 at 11:47 AM

    Beautiful piece as always! Well done Debby ?❤️

  15. Bliss Nwoke September 18, 2020 at 1:13 AM

    I like the tone of the post, it’s different, it’s real and enlightening.

    1. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author September 18, 2020 at 7:11 AM

      Thank you Bliss. I’m glad you think so

    2. Deborah Adebayo - Site Author September 21, 2020 at 6:43 PM

      Thank you Bliss. I’m glad you think so. ?

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